“Will you Photoshop this out?”
A common phrase we hear all too often.
If you’re looking for a photographer to make sweeping changes to an image so you look "perfect", I’m not the best fit. And trust me, it takes a lot for me to say I’m not the best fit.
But it’s time to draw some boundaries when it comes to how we edit and the impossible standards of Photoshopping + Instagram filters + weird apps that alter your face (terrible!).
Let’s break down the most common scenarios:
Well I edit out your freckles? No.
Will I edit out that blemish that’ll be gone in a week? Yes.
Will I edit out scars? No.
Will I edit out wrinkles in clothing? As much as I can without turning your clothing into plastic ;)
Will I edit out that t-shirt stain that appeared after lunch? Yes.
Will I edit out the flyaway hairs? If they're distracting. If they're showing the wind blowing through beautifully, then no.
Will I edit out that piece of trash or water bottle near your feet? Yes.
Will I edit out that distracting tree branch, bugs flying by, stranger in the background? Yes. I have no problem editing out environmental distractions to an otherwise lovely photo.
Will I "fix" your stomach or arms? No, that's what posing + flattering clothes are for. More below...
Will I edit out your “double chin”? No but I will guide you into flattering poses under beautiful lighting. That being said, not every image gets set up for flattering angles.
If your spouse makes you laugh out loud or if he/she says something so sweet that your cheeks flush, I’m not worried about you looking like a model. I’m sending that pic your way because of that special moment.
How do I make those decisions and why does it matter?
1. I would have to charge twice as much to accommodate editing time for extensive and timely Photoshop requests. I'm not interested in offering that service but there are many out there that do!
2. I don’t want to perpetuate impossible beauty standards by making you look like anything other than you. We need to collectively work towards highlighting the beauty of all people, not highlighting the beauty of over-Photoshopped skin or mimicking celeb Insty posts.
It’s hard to define your role in this as a photographer because it’s my goal that you enjoy your experience and the end results. It's up to me to decide what kind of photographer I want to be though.
When you're 80 years old and showing your wedding photos to grandkids, I want you to recognize your beautiful self from so many years ago. I want you to be reminded of exactly how you felt that day. I don't want you to look back on a plastic figure.
Hot tips for a photo session you'll feel great about:
One final thought: You're great just the way you are.