The blog post was originally published on 11/6/2018 and updated on 5/20/2020.
You’re in the gown or suit that took weeks (months?) of research and shopping to find. Your hair is the most on point it has ever been. The venue you’ve selected is perfectly curated with floral arrangements and personal accents. Everyone you love has gathered to celebrate your milestone. This moment is joyful and intentional.
...and unfortunately, the professional photographer you’ve hired to artfully capture this moment is dodging Aunt Jocelyn's camera flash that keeps going off and side stepping your roomie from college who’s half way in the aisle with his iPhone.
It’s literally impossible to capture the important moments because your guests are hovering in the aisle and snapping photos of you with their iPhones as you head to the altar.
It goes without saying that your photos will be of much higher quality if your designated photographer isn’t dodging friends and family to do her job. The less obvious but super powerful benefit of going the unplugged route is that everyone attending is fully present. They're there to witness and engage with their eyes and hearts, rather than with their technology. Eye contact will replace staring into screens if you’ve asked for full participation, rather than documentation.
Making Your Unplugged Wedding a Reality!
Let’s talk about how you prepare your guests for going unplugged:
Most people understand that the photographer was hired to complete a job, and it’s never anyone’s intention to hinder that. And there were many years where I said little about the inclusion of phones/iPads/laptops during the ceremony but I now feel like it's my responsibility to speak up. The usage has increased for everyone and I can see the effects.
Remember: your wedding is about you two! Don’t be afraid to create boundaries!
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